Dating Tips for Finding the Right Person.
Relationships could be a difficult nut to crack for some people. Sometimes, it happens miraculously for some people who are not even looking for love in the first place. For others, love is like a treasure hunt: you keep hoping and wishing for the best.
If you are in the category of those who feel they are cursed to forever be alone, well this post is for you.
What are some Dating Tips for Finding Mr and Mrs Right?
1. Be the Right Person
This is the starting point and agrees with the golden rule of DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU. It isn't wise to be looking for the right person when you are the wrong one who will destroy the Relationship finally.
2. Move out of your comfort zone
Ok, you have solved the matter of being the right single who is ready to mingle, what else? Well, you may have to move out of your comfort zone to find your love. This includes changing neighbourhoods, religious affinity, or even travelling across oceans to find your missing rib.
3. Make the bold move
Take the bold step when you have identified the person. Some persons will crush on a person and spend eternity looking and wishing that the other person makes the first move. You may wait forever. Just make the move boldly.
4. Have open-minded, honest communication
Be open to your significant other. Yes, there is nothing wrong with keeping some secrets, but being overly sensitive or secretive will hurt your Relationship more in the long run. When you have the opportunity to talk about something with the person you are dating, be honest.
5. There is power in Compromise
Sometimes you may need to argue to share your opinion on a particular decision. Just try and do it peacefully and remember that you may have to lose a battle to win some wars. Don't attempt to be right all the time. Have it in mind that the end goal should be the upliftment of the stakeholders in the Relationship.
6. Be optimistic
Optimism is a fuel that could power your new relationship to great heights. In this dating tip, whether you are heading out for lunch or facing a rough patch in the friendship, be sure to have it in mind that things will get better in the end. A negative mind is like a bad tyre that ruins a good journey.
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7. Maintain External Relationships and Interests
The fact that you are dating someone does not make the Relationship mutually exclusive to both of you. You have family, friends and work to cater for. Never let your date come between you and your external relationships and interests. Try and strike a balance.
Those are my Dating Tips for today. You have something else to add? Feel free to post it in our comment box below.